Is happiness
at Christmas related to how much money you spend? This year I have been
very aware of how much things cost and with almost everyone feeling the pinch
it's good to know that money and material things only account for 10% of our
happiness.
Great I hear you say - I'll tell my kids that Santa said it's the
actions you take and the people you spend time with that will make you happier
so that's why you don't have the latest gadget, phone, toy etc.
I am a
parent too and have spent many years searching for that must have item on the
Xmas list, the one thing that my kids really really wanted but seemed to be
forgotten about by New Year. I also know now looking back over the years
the things I remember most about Xmas are the fun times, the laughs, making
decorations, baking cakes, making sweets, our Xmas traditions that we created
together. I like to give memories as presents - no I don't have a memory bowl
from Harry Potter! I like to give gifts of experiences rather than
things. There is a whole range of experience days out there to purchase -
spa days, falconry, driving, chocolate making to name a few. Great
presents but they can also be expensive so here's my plan for this year - make
up your own experience days.
Give your time and energy to share something
they enjoy. My list includes - baking cakes then home made afternoon tea,
photography day, craft days - candle making, sewing bags and cushions and
filling jars with interesting things, shells, sand, buttons, story writing
days, book swaps and reading days, music days - creating playlists and making
music, film days, outdoor adventures with winter picnics.
I know that the
memories created by these experiences will last a lot longer than the immediate
burst of joy from a new gadget or toy. I am giving my time, my love, my
energy and my imagination to people this year. I won't still be paying for Xmas
in July but I can call on the memories of the happy times that are created
whenever I need them and so will the recipients of the gifts too.
If you have
any special ideas for creating happiness without spending a lot of cash I'd love to hear about them.
2 comments:
When you have the experiences, place a note about them in a memory jar to be opened next year. You can then recall them and experience it all over again. X
When you have the experiences, place a note about them in a memory jar to be opened next year. You can then recall them and experience it all over again. X
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